Former radio star Jian Ghomeshi came across as a humble, charming and chivalrous gentleman who, without warning, would turn dark and violent, a witness told his sexual assault trial yesterday.
However, in an intense cross-examination, Ghomeshi’s lawyer accused the woman of, at best, failing to remember important details of what she said happened or, at worst, of making up some of her story.
In her opening testimony, the woman, who once considered Ghomeshi good dating material, described how he had shocked her by going from sweet and polite to pulling her hair so hard that it hurt.
“It felt almost like a rage that wasn’t there the second before he did it,’’ said the woman, who can’t be identified.
“It was very confusing.’’
The incident in December 2002 occurred as they sat in what she described as his “love bug,’’ a yellow VW Beetle, near the CBC building in Toronto, she told court.
The woman, then 41, had met Ghomeshi at a Christmas party and he had invited her to a show taping, after which they went for a drink. Ghomeshi had been flirtatious, but she had no qualms accepting a ride with him.
“I remember thinking: he’s funny, he’s intelligent, he opens doors, he’s a perfect gentleman,” she said.
After the hair-grabbing, Ghomeshi seemed to “switch back’’ to the charming guy of earlier, she said, leaving her wondering if he simply didn’t know his own strength.
“I questioned whether he actually meant to hurt me,’’ she said.
On a “happy night’’ about a month later, she accepted his invitation to go alone with him to his house.
They were standing up kissing when he went behind her, grabbed her hair and yanked her to her knees, she told prosecutor Michael Callaghan.
“At the same time, he’s punching me in the head. Multiple times. I’m terrified. Then I start to cry,’’ she testified.
“He threw me out like trash. He had nothing to say. I was frozen in fear and sadness.’’
The woman said she didn’t go to police at the time because she didn’t think it would go anywhere.
Still, the incidents preyed on her, especially as his popularity grew and he became more publicly visible.
“Something that I was trying to bury kept resurfacing and I had to relive the violence over and over,’’ she said.
It was only in 2014 when Ghomeshi, now 48, went on Facebook to say he had “rough’’ but only consensual sex with women that she began to think about speaking out.
She went to the media and then police after Toronto’s then-police chief urged any victims to come forward.
Under cross-examination, the woman denied she was unhappy the popular host of CBC’s Q appeared to have lost interest in her after the initial encounter.
Ghomeshi’s lawyer, Marie Henein, also said the former radio star didn’t have a VW Beetle at the time of their first encounter.
“What I saw was what I saw,’’ the woman responded. “It looked like that to me.’’
Henein made much of several discrepancies in what the woman told court, police or the media, even at one point accusing her of a “false memory’’ or lying.
“It was not a lie,’’ the witness countered at one point.
“This wasn’t carefully thought out,’’ she said at another point.
Henein, known for her take-no-prisoners style, elicited from the witness that police interviewed her only once for about an hour before charging him over the two alleged incidents.
The lawyer also suggested the witness had told a friend at the time she was “smitten’’ with Ghomeshi, something she denied.
“I really liked him. It was that one incident that I’d had,’’ she said of the first hair-pulling.
“I did want to see him again.’’
She never did see Ghomeshi after the second incident, she testified in a mostly steady fashion.
Ghomeshi has pleaded not guilty to four counts of sexual assault — two of which relate to the first witness — and one count of overcoming resistance by choking.
He is being tried by judge alone.
“To state the obvious, this trial has attracted an extraordinary amount of media attention,’’ Ontario court Judge William Horkins said as proceedings got underway.
Only one of the three complainants in the case can be identified publicly — actress Lucy DeCoutere, best known for her role in the TV series Trailer Park Boys.
She has yet to testify.
Ghomeshi also faces one other count of sexual assault involving a fourth complainant that will be tried separately in June.
The trial continues today.
— The Canadian Press